List realistic choices
Include a small step, a larger step, and the option to wait for information. Avoid treating urgency as proof that only one choice exists.
Give yourself more than one way forward.
Consider possibilities without rushing to defend the first answer.
Consider the tradeoffs
For each option, note time, effort, resources, and possible effects on others. Identify which assumptions need checking.
Protect what matters
Set limits around dignity, integrity, and commitments you must honor. An attractive option can still carry a cost you should decline.